REFLECT: The Moment I Stopped Waiting for Perfect Conditions

“The only impossible journey is the one you never begin.”
— Tony Robbins

There’s a saying that's always resonated with me, one I’ve found to be true in so many situations, and it predicts when we are ready for change

“We will only change when the fear of staying the same outweighs the fear of change.”

I’m sure this resonates with many of you, too. It might be that job that drains you, the habit you continue to do over and over, or that relationship that you know deep down shrinks you.

It's all the things we tolerate until something changes, and then one moment we don't. We’re not quite sure what has shifted; we just know something has.

Change comes from the whisper deep inside, I can't do this anymore, that's the moment.

This moment is beautiful, it's also hard, it's messy, and it can be very lonely. We know we are ready for change, but we are not quite sure how to get there, and we start to question everything.

Who am I, what will my life be, and how do I get there? I’ve been there, and the space between who we are and who we want to be is a dark grey area, one that can be hard to navigate.

My advice is, all you need to know and do is the next step. What is the next thing I can do to get myself to where I want to be? The rest will come, day by day, moment by moment, when you choose yourself; everything else will follow.

Taking that first step is the hardest. I have every faith you can do it, and I’m here to cheer you on from the sidelines.

You got this.

RISE: Your Weekly Glow-Up Check-In

This week’s energy: Discomfort is a compass. Notice when you start to feel uncomfortable, sit with it, ask yourself Why is this making me feel uncomfortable?

Your 3-step challenge:

1. Write down one thing you’re tolerating that no longer feels aligned to who you are.

2. Take a 10-minute action step toward shifting it, even a tiny one.

3. Journal: What’s the cost of staying the same? What’s the possibility of change?

Affirmation for the week:

“I trust myself to choose change when I’m ready to rise.”

REAL TALK:

There’s never a perfect time.

But there is always a powerful one, and that’s the moment you decide you’re done playing small. The moment you decide to take that first step.

Let your discomfort be your compass. Let it guide you back home to yourself and the changes you are ready to take.

GLOW-DOWN: Waitlist is Open

You don’t need a map, just your next brave step.

If you're ready to stop settling and start rising, my 1:1 coaching waitlist is open.

We go deep, we go bold, we go real and we do it together.

Join the Waitlist to coach 1-1 here.

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Let’s turn your discomfort into your comeback.

Here’s to being brave enough to begin, even if it’s messy, even if it’s slow.

💋 Your Sober Hype Girl